Yeah I did fall in love I did feel the broken heart I did feel hurt cried all day n nights..friends keep saying move on la..forget it..grab your future..don't waste to someone who won't worth u any..
As advice and advice and advice..I did all the Move On techniques..few days ago I read over #Terfaktab on 'How To Move On'..here I copy share with some additional comment from my experience..hope #Terfaktab won't sue me on copying theirs..I did this on purpose ok..
"There's a million ways to move on"#Terfaktab
1-Stop stalking your exes, they ain't worth a dime and space in your present and future, unless you wanted them to still be apart of you
-been there done that..I stop stalking but its appearing by itself..people talk people tell people said people show me bout him-#failed!
2-Redirect your daily thinking process and chores to something that might benefit you.
-been there done that..I had all my brain push over on my work my responsible..end up tired working adding more stress..when I wanna have quality rest at night the only thing before I sleep he came into my thought not my work at all-#failed!
3-Go get a hobby, pet a cat, sing a song, write a song, write a book, go bungee jumping, play video games, get your head out of the phony mind that'd take you deeper into the past.( Embrace your present with the things u'd enjoy.)*good point*
-been there done that..I did get a new hobby which I bought DIANA as my new partner of life my pet, a lomo camera..I did fall in love with lomo but when I'm with Diana I kept thinking of capturing our picture togather..his picture alone..I did do kind of bungee jumping when I went to Korea which Korea trip was one of a way to help me to move on..I did it all in my mind only 'oh how I wish I did this with him,how I wish I went here with him,how I wish I ran over Nami's Island with him'WTF!!#failed!
4-Do not overthink, overthinking brings your feelings to another level of misery in which I certainly certain you don't wanna conjure into.( Who wants to live in a big ass mess you've done before?)*i love this sentence*
-been there done that..I told myself stop thinking yes I did stop thinking..I'm happy my BaBy deleted itself all the past message of us..I left all pictures untouched..but all the place in this name Malaysia I was been around with him!!WTF I be there I saw me n him before..do I really need to run away out from Malaysia where a place I never been togather with him?!-#Failed!
There's a various amount of time people take to move on
Some people can move the fuck on in a blink of an eye, while some other take almost their whole life just to move on. This depends on your will of life and the will to find a better picture of tomorrow.
5-Trust me, Tomorrow won't only bring you sorrow, there's a universe to go for.
Catch that big ass fish in the deep blue sea.
-i love this sentence quote..its kind of giving me a lil bit spirit!-
6-Stop whining and start discovering. Whining is actually a must but over-whining won't get you nowhere.
There's so much to life than just whining about what you past had done to you.
-agree but my past still apart of my future in my heart-
7-Be fucking optimists. Optimism brings you a big ass smile. Imagine the best part of losing that so called apart of you, I can guarantee you'd found it someway somehow unless u're a total pain in d arse.
-this point I can't get my point back..I'm speechless-
8-Be oblivious. If Your pasts brings you into the dark cave of horror and sorrow, get them out of your life. Turn over a new leaf. Crop a new picture. Find a new friends, Built a new circle.
-build new circle?how?I guess I did a lot..I have plenty of blogger friends..twitter friends which I confident will be a new circle of friends!..I did but what's the different?I still end up loving the one-
9-Your will of life will determine your effort to move on. Losing isn't everything, it's just a game of life.
Why people don't wanna move on?
Because they're happy staying in the pain. Or maybe perhaps they're too wishful. Miracle do happened, but they won't happen all the time. Those fairy have a limited amount of miracle to glock on you.
-miracle won't happen but hoping keep me alive..without hopes I feel empty..-
10-Don't look back in anger, look back, in a big wide smile
It's ok to remember the past, but don't do it frequently, do it so that you'll learn from the past mistakes
-i don't look back but It came to me like a movie playing repeating in my eyes n brain..sometime I smile alone sometime I laugh alone n sometime I cried alone..can I just demolish the player off from my world so it won't keep playing my past?but what the hell would be the player?my brain?my heart?can I demolish them?!fucking big NO!-
11-The past can teach us a lot of thinky thanky steps on what to and what not to do in order for us not to do the same mistakes again.
-i just learn not to love others anymore cause it hurt fucking damn much!-
12-Don't forget the first basic step, the most important thing in this world is your own happiness. How could you be happy when u never try to be happy with your own self?
-how can I be happy by my own when I saw others are being happy with their other half?!-
13-Lesson should be learned, not to be repeated again.
-i did nothing wrong it just him who lost his love to me so what should I learn from it?!-
P/s:I'm not plagiarism just intend to give my point..sorry I did copy paste all from #Terfaktab..all the sentences are #Terfaktab..mine only the sentences in dash(-)..
Eh betol ka aku akan kena sue copying like this?cuaks juga huhu..
Part of this is just a sharing of my thought n experience k!!but we should really Move on!!
P/s:picture shows me n friends on friend's wedding..we love the friendship..I love friendship without friendship I would die of heart broken..they hold my hands when I fall..the pull me out when I'm drowning..they gave me CPR when I'm most needed..there are other part of me sent by Allah to help me survive!..I really love all my friends..jokerians..astech..spastic utipian..geng steamship/perut buaya..all n all much love from me :)